We are on a mission to help everyone live a healthier, more pleasurable life—possibly with electronic assistance. It’s been more than 20 years since the iconic Rabbit episode of Sex and the City made sex toys an acceptable subject for polite conversation—in theory, at least. That culture of shame isn’t just a problem for the ultra-liberated Samanthas of the world. Statistics and common sense both show that bad sex ed leads to poor sexual health, and lack of knowledge about sex can have lifelong impFacts.
Knowing how your body works is the first step toward having the sex life of your dreams, you guys! I’ve been teaching sex ed for more than a decade. Whether it’s showing middle schoolers how to put condoms on bananas or talking about getting kinky with people old
enough to be my grandparents, nothing fazes me anymore. And actually, one of the things I love most about my job is that simply by being accepting. I get to help people have meaningful conversations about their desires, conversations they’ve been avoiding or struggling with for years. So when the producers at Cosmo asked me to host their new YouTube series about sex toys, I was game. And when they handed me a microphone and told me to ask strangers on the streets of Manhattan questions about masturbation, I didn’t flinch.
When you’ve worked sixth-grade classrooms as long as I have, these convos just don’t feel awkward anymore. You can treat this series as a much-needed guide to all that good stuff. Because here’s the unfortunate reality: The sex-toy industry is extremely poorly regulated. I’ve worked in my fair share of sex shops, and I’ve seen some things. Retailers that resell returned items—yep, even used ones. Some companies sell toys and lubricants made of materials that aren’t body-safe.
Sure, individual sex shops train their staff as professional sex educators and choose to carry only body-safe products, but others, well, don’t. So it’s time to dip a toe into the vast full world of sex toys and watch the first episode in our new series above. Shop 'How to Sex Toy' Snug Plug 1 Beginner Weighted Silicone Butt Plug 3 Inch B-Vibe lovehoney.com $ 44.99 Petite Vibrator Wand with Flexible Silicone Head Le Wand babeland.com $ 135.00 Booster Rabbit Vibrator FemmeFunn babeland.com $ 109.99 Jack Rabbit Signature Thumping Rabbit Vibrator Cal Exotics babeland.com $ 128.99 Haylin Belay Haylin Belay is a sex educator, health promotion professional, and yoga instructor in New York City. Sex toys are a clutch way to up the ante in the bedroom and heighten intimacy with your S.O. Since you're trying something new and exciting together, and let's be real: Fingers, mouths, and genitals can only do so much. At the same time, the best sex toys for couples can take care of pretty much everything else. Of course, bringing a toy into partner play for the first time can be a bit intimidating, especially if you're not sure how your person might react.
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Liz Klinger, women’s sexual health expert and founder of Lioness, suggests the obvious: "Gauge their reaction first, talk about it, and then make a decision." And realize, "there’s a chance that they may not want a sex toy, and that’s fine, too," she adds. "There are plenty of other ways to explore and be intimate together."But if they ARE into it (yay!), go shopping. As much as you may want to surprise your partner with your latest haul, getting their input on what they'd like, too, will help make sure the toy gets proper, uh, usage. Together, decide what kind of penetration you want, how intense you want the vibration (if at all), and whether or not you wish to add BDSM to your routine. Once you’ve figured all that out, the hardest part will be deciding how many of these 24 best sex toys for couples you should add to your arsenal. My take?
The more, the better... 1 Complete Le Wand Pleasure Set lewandmassager.com $ 234.99 Don't let the price tag scare you: This kit has everything you could ever want for a night of toy-induced fun. LeWand doubles as a solo and partnered toy, so you can use it on yourself and then add one of the **special** attachments to use on your partner. It's an all-in-one toy for clitoris stimulation, anal penetration, and hitting the G-spot. So you know it'll pack a punch for everyone involved. 2 Lovehoney Bionic Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring Lovehoney lovehoney.com $ 24.99 Hi, double-duty sex toy! This baby is designed just for couples, as a bullet vibe with both a built-in cock ring and rabbit ears.
The ears massage your highly sensitive clitoris while the ring buzzes the base of his penis or shaft, upping the chances of the rare simultaneous orgasm. Enjoy! 3 Jive Couples Vibrator We-Vibe babeland.com $ 119.00 If penetrative sex is your jam, but you want that vibration that neither fingers nor a penis can create, the We-Vibe Jive is for you. This perfectly sized egg-shaped vibrator is controlled remotely by a smartphone app. So you can insert it and use it during oral sex or sport it on your next date night to make foreplay an all-night event. 4 Tomboi Harness SpareParts HardWear shevibe.com $ 84.95 If you’re in a two-vagina relationship and at least one of you craves penetrative sex, the Tomboi harness is just what you need. With a silky, comfy fit, this harness looks like underwear, but it can hold any dildo you throw its way.
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Oh, and if you need a dildo suggestion, try this super-smooth cutie. 5 Mio Cock Ring Je Joue babeland.com $ 109.00 This vibrating cock ring is fantastic. The padded silicone ring sits at the base of the penis. It adds vibration that both partners will love during penetrative sex. You can also use this toy as a way to tease your penis-owning partner before diving into P-in-the-V action. 6 Club Vibe 3.OH OhMiBod babeland.com $ 119.00 Want to get the party going outside the bedroom? Slip this vibe in your undies before hitting the party or club with your partner, and let it control you as it vibrates to the beat of the music.
You can even give your sexy someone the remote control, so they have full power over when and where you get to have your fun—from the dance floor to the back of the Uber. 7 Lovehoney Oh! Roll Play Foreplay Dice Lovehoney Oh! lovehoney.com $ 9.99 Craving more foreplay in your life but not sure where to start? Whip out these sex dice with your partner, and take turns rolling until you've done every verb + noun combo—or until you just can't take it anymore.
8 Lovehoney Sexploration Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit Lovehoney sex toys for couples $ 51.00 Want options? Now you've got them. This Sexploration kit from online sex boutique Lovehoney resembles an advent calendar with its 12-days-of-fun approach. The set includes a dildo, clitoral vibrator, kegel balls, a beginner butt plug, nipple clamps, silky wrist ties, and more. 9 Sex Ramp Liberator babeland.com $ 185.00 When it comes down to it, sometimes all you need to spice up your sex life is a change in position. Find new ways to bend your and your partner's bodies and get deeper penetration with this comfy (and machine washable!) sex ramp. 10 Le Wand Point Vibrator Le Wand wildflowersex.com $ 125.00 This tiny but mighty vibrator has a perfectly soft-pointed tip for direct stimulation on any (and pretty much every) body part imaginable.
Use it to tickle your partner's nipples, belly button, or inner thighs, then have them surprise you the same. 11 Door Jam Cuffs Sportsheets lovehoney.com $ 24.99 If you and your partner want to try playing with bondage but don’t have a great place to hook some handcuffs, these door cuffs are the answer. Throw them over the door of your room or bathroom, strap in, and have fun. These cuffs take your sex life up a notch—literally. 12 Partner Multifun 1 Satisfyer us.satisfyer.com $ 49.95 A G-spot stimulator, cock ring, and clit vibe all in one cute package? Score!
Use this toy with your partner and experiment with all the exciting ways it can spark your sexual curiosity. Satisfyer promises 100 (!) different vibration/setup combos for a climax you won't forget. 13 Novice Butt Plug b-Vibe bvibe.com $ 130.00 If you or your partner wants to play with anal stimulation but aren’t sure where to start, this novice plug is perfect. With a remote for partner control and varying levels of vibration. This plug (which requires water-based lube) will 100-per cent enhance penetrative sex, oral sex, or alone time (for when your partner isn't in the picture). 14 Double Dildo Wet For Her setforher.com $ 89.95 Made for couples with two vaginas, this double dildo doesn't just allow for penetration at the same time. It also doesn’t mimic a penis even a little bit (because why would you want that?). Bless! The long curved end looks like two fingers but can reach lengths no ordinary human could.
Again, just don’t forget the lube. 15 Lelo Ida Lelo lovehoneys.com $ 199.99 Ida is like the women's version of a cock ring. You insert it inside your vagina, and when your partner thrusts, you both get the extra sensation of vibration against your private bits (your clit, his shaft). The soft and small handheld remote makes controlling the intensity super easy, too. 16 Sex Sling Purple Reins lovehoneys.com $ 149.99 Channel your inner Samantha Jones with this sex swing. You’ll need a reliable place to hang it (read the instructions before making any holes in your walls!). Still, once it’s up, you’ll be able to swing into penetration like your own boudoir Cirque du Soleil.
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Experiment with every kind of angle possible, upside-down penetration, yep, pretty much anything within your imagination. 17 Sensuelle Point Sensuelle musensuelle.com $ 70.99. This pocket-sized sex toy has 20 (yes, you read that right) different speeds, vibrations, and patterns of rhythm—so no surprise that it’s known for its strength and intensity. Because it’s so small, this bullet vibe fits easily between you and your partner during sex. 18 Match Couples Vibrator We-Vibe lovehoneys.com $ 139.99 Taking tech to a whole new level, this sex toy is a part vibrator, part app. You or a partner can control vibrations through either the wireless remote or the We-Connect app. Users can even create custom vibes (and save them!) to rev their partner from any location. Plus, the snug fit gives attention to your G-spot and clit, while the ten different vibe options also feel amazing for his penis as it slips under the toy during sex.
19 Fin Vibrator for Fingers dammeproducts.com $ 85.00 Honestly, Fin is a miracle toy. Perfectly fit for your pointer finger, this little powerhouse packs a serious punch. Use it alone or add to penetrative sex for some extra clitoral stimulation. Bonus, Fin doesn’t look anything like a penis, in case penises aren’t your ~thing~ when it comes to sexy time. 20 Eva II Vibrator Dame Products dammeproducts.com $ 135.00 This adorable toy is another one designed with couples in mind. The tiny, light, and simple-to-use vibe are similar to a cock ring (direct clit pleasure for her), but it's worn by the woman instead, making it a little less cumbersome.
Plus, it's waterproof so that you can get very creative with your sexual adventures. 21 We-Vibe Moxie wildflosex.com $ 129.00. Another wearable vibrator (read: stick it in your underwear), this one from We-Vibe is whisper-quiet, comfortable, and budge-proof (thanks to a magnetic clip). Handoff the little remote —or have your partner download the app—and let them take control (literally) when you're together or apart. 22 Ohnut ohnut.co $ 55.00 This unsuspecting toy brings penetrative sex to a whole new, highly comfortable level. If you experience painful sex. It could be caused by everything from giving birth to endometriosis to vaginismus to doggy style that just doesn't sit right with your cervix.
Ohnut helps take care of all that so you can enjoy yourself (which, you know, is kind of the whole point). Use the stackable rings with either a penis or dildo (and plenty of lube) by slipping them on before penetration—they prevent your partner from entering too deep. 23 Iroha Midori Vibrator Iroha shevibe.com $ 89.99. The Iroha Midori is a tiny, squishy vibrator that looks more like a stress ball than a product for sexual pleasure. But that's what makes it an easily movable toy that is non-threatening. Designed to provide satisfaction for all tastes, it offers a variety of vibration intensities and patterns, so you and your partner can discover what gets you going. Experiment with this vibe by using it to stroke all the different erogenous zones on your and his body, not just the genitals. 24 Partner Whale Satisfyer satisfyer.com $ 29.95 Similar to the We-Vibe Match, this Satisfyer vibrator was also designed specifically for couples play.
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There’s a vast big full world of sex toys to enjoy! Consider us to be your tour guide. As you learn all about the different styles and categories of dildos, vibrators, clitoral stimulators, butt plugs, g-spot vibes, and so many more superb sex toys. Welcome to the World of Women’s Sex Toys! First, let’s take a brief minute to talk about why sex toys for women are so popular, and how far they’ve come over the years. While the earliest types of sex toys were little more than old-fashioned dildos, things advanced very quickly during the aptly-named sexual revolution in the ’60s. This was the era that brought personal vibrators to the world, and once that happened, there was no turning back. The Magic Wand sold countless products in countries all over the globe. Which was the tipping point that created an entire industry dedicated to creating products for the sole purpose of sexual pleasures.
These days, sex toy manufacturers are incredibly creative, and they put their minds to work researching all kinds of different ways to bring pleasure to women. With an impressive array of designs, shapes, styles, colours, materials, textures, and sensations to experience, there are sex toys out there that will satisfy every woman! What Should I Look for in a Women’s Sex Toy? Well, that’s a question that’s going to be a little (or a lot) different for each woman, isn’t it? Many different sexual sensations can be mixed into countless combinations, and there’s no magic number that works for every woman. In general, each sex toy will have some combination of the following aspects to it: How big is it, using measures like length, girth, etc.? Is it shaped to touch or reach a particular place?
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How would you describe the feel of the surface? For example, smooth, ridged, bumpy, etc.? Is it made to feel like real skin, or something different? Is it made from a material that is soft and pliable, or is it hard and rigid, or is it a combination of more than one material? Does it vibrate, pulse, thrust, or create some other type of sensation? Can it be used in multiple ways, or is it specific to some kind of use like a clitoral stimulator? How do you choose the combination of things that you should look for in a sex toy? Well, think about the types of sensations you like from sex and masturbation. Do you enjoy penetration the most, or wish for more clitoral play? Do you like the feeling of being stretched, or is the g-spot your favourite thing?
Once you identify the type of sexual pleasures you prefer, you’ll start to get a sense of which style of sex toy you may want to try. While some toys are specifically designed to bring pleasure for two, any sex toy can be great fun for a couple to play with. It’s been shown that couples that use sex toys together can develop stronger bonds and deeper intimacy. Stemming from feelings of increased openness and lowered inhibitions that come from mutual experiences with sex toys. Don’t Let The Number of Options Overwhelm You. One look at the wide variety of sex toys for women can be so overwhelming, it’s sometimes difficult to even know where to start. That’s where this guide will come in handy as you search for the ultimate sex toy that’ll take you to pleasure-ville! We’re going to break down some of the most popular sex toys for women. As well as some of the fantastic brands that have gained their reputation for creating sex toys that consistently bring incredible orgasms. Massager Vibrators These are the sex toys that started it all. Also known as wand-style massagers and vibrators. They’ve got a rounded massaging end that vibrates at different speeds and intensities, producing incredible pleasure wherever you want it.
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The original Magic Wand is a customer-favourite, and will never let you down! Or, if you’re looking for something a little more compact, have a look at the BodyWand Mini Vibe. All the pleasure of the full-size wands, in a gorgeous, tiny package!Want to crank things up a notch with your massager vibe? You can also get special attachments that fit on end and are great at reaching deeper to hit the right spots or generating a different style of sensation. Try the Wand Essentials Deep Glider Curved G-Spot Attachment or the Lily Pod Wand Attachment, and we guarantee you’ll be blown away. Rabbit VibratorsMade famous in the 90’s thanks to multiple appearances in popular movies and TV shows. The unique design of the rabbit vibrator delivers fantastic sensations inside and out, with a different second vibe section that is in the perfect position to hit the clit. This extra sexual stimulation on the clitoris is just what you need to hit the heights of orgasmic excitement again and again. If the rabbit sounds like your kind of toy, the PinkCherry, You’re So Bunny!
Beginner Vibe is the perfect place to start. Or, maybe you want some super-thrusting action along with your rabbit vibe. No problem! The Shegasm Pro-Thrust Suction Rabbit will give you precisely what you’re craving. Couples VibratorsDouble your pleasure with a sex toy that is explicitly designed to provide intense sensations to both you and your partner simultaneously! The We-Vibe line of couple’s vibrators puts you in complete control of the delightful sexual pleasure. With remote controls, adjustable settings, and even a smartphone app that will sync with your music playlists and also allow you to control it from miles away. You’re never too far away to pleasure your partner when you’ve got the We-Vibe! Vibrating cock rings are another great way to have fun together through the magic of buzzing, pulsing, throbbing action.
Check out toys like like the PinkCherry Happy Penis Vibrating Ring, or the brilliant Frisky Bunny Vibrating Cock Ring, and ride the waves of pleasure again and again! Realistic DildosIf you want a sex toy that’s as close to a penis as possible. Our selection of realistic dildos is sure to give you precisely what you’re looking for. Made from ultra-realistic materials and sculpted to mimic the real thing perfectly. You can find a dildo in any size or shade you want to suit your desires. Of course, if you won’t settle for anything else than the feel of your partner’s appendage. Then check out the Clone-a-Willy kits that allow you to create a perfect replica of your favourite cock, complete with a built-in vibrator! If you want a couple of recommendations for realistic dildos that are sure to get your legs shaking, we’ve got you covered. The Real Skin Whoppers line of dildos are consistently rated as some of the best dildos by our customers, including their incredible 6.5” Dildo. Want something a little funkier and more colourful? The ColourSoft 8” Silicone Dildo comes in an excellent shade of purple that you’ll love.G-Spot VibratorsThere are some spots on the body that are just way sexier than others. The g-spot is definitely at the top of the list. To hit it just right, however, you need a toy that’s curved and shaped to get maximum pleasure.
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That’s what a g-spot vibrator is all about. These fantastic sex toys are the perfect pleasure producing devices for spectacular g-spot orgasms that will have your legs shaking! Need proof? Check out the Lucid Dream No.14 G-Spot Vibe, the We-Vibe Rave Silicone G-Spot Vibe, or the Fantasy for Her G-Spot Stimulate-Her Vibe. Trust us when we say when you fire up any of those pleasure-packed g-spot vibrators and give it a go, you’re in for a real treat! Clitoral Stimulators. As we see with the popularity of rabbit vibes, getting some stimulation on the clitoris is like waving a magic wand of sexual satisfaction for women. Clitoral stimulators are 100% focused on getting pleasure from the clit and use a couple of different methods to do it. Some are simply mini-vibes that are designed to be easily held against the clitoris, while some are more specialized designs.
Companies like Womanizer have revolutionized how we think about clitoral sex toys with luxurious clitoral stimulators that provide suction, pulsing, and other incredible sensations to the clitoris. You’ve got to feel it believe it! Some of our customer’s favourite and most popular clitoral stimulators include the PinkCherry Happy Little Sucker Clitoral Stimulator, the world-famous Womanizer Liberty, and the Inspire Flicker Intimate Arouser Vibe. Once you experience the unbelievable pleasure that can be had by hitting your button with one of these, you’ll never want to switch it off! Compact Vibes & Wearable VibesGood things come in small packages, and these brilliant little vibes are certainly proof of that!
Mini-vibes are available in many different styles, such as bullet vibes and egg vibes. As well as ones that are designed to fit snugly and discreetly inside a specialized pair of panties. These wearable vibe panties are an exciting and naughty way to take your pleasure anywhere. Some even come with remote controls so that you can have some secret sexual fun as your partner surprises you with new sensations! If you want something small and compact that will make the perfect little travel buddy. Check out the PinkCherry High-Intensity Mini Bullet Vibe & shake off the stress of travel with a rockin’ orgasm. Or, if you want a naughty little secret to share with your partner when you’re out for a sexy date night, slip on a pair of these Vibrating Panties and hit the town. Anal Vibrators, Anal Beads, & Butt PlugsIf you’re a fan of backdoor play. Then consider trying an anal vibrator, anal beads, or a butt plug to experience something completely new. There are all kinds of anal sex toys available for you to discover, including starter sets of anal sex toys that are perfect for beginners. Strap-on harnesses that will hold a dildo or vibrator for thrusting and pegging, and quirky butt plugs that are just as cute and fashionable as they are pleasurable. Need some suggestions to get yourself started with anal play? We recommend toys like the Booty Rocket Vibrating Plug, the Silicone Wireless Pleasure Probe, or the Booty Call Booty Vibro Kit.
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Backdoor pleasure awaits you if you have the right toys to unlock it! More Women’s Sex Toys Than You Have Ever Imagined! This is only the beginning! There are countless other types of women’s sex toys to try that can take you to realms of pleasure you’ve only dreamed of. Whether you’re looking for your first-ever vibrator, or are curious about exploring the exciting world of BDSM sex toys. You’ll find precisely the sex toy that is perfect for satisfying your desires right here at PinkCherry. Our complete line of women’s sex toys is sure to fulfil your wildest fantasies and help you hit new heights of orgasmic satisfaction! The 20 Best Sex Toys for Couples Please Gel Lubricant Babeland$ 20 While not a toy per se, the quality lubricant is a great-sex staple. "Using lubricant can increase sensation, make everything slicker, and cut down on any bad friction for a more comfortable and intimate experience," Finn says. First, a primer: Lubricant typically comes in the water-based or oil-based form.
Oil-based options can double as a massage oil and tend to last longer, but they also break down latex, so they can't be used with condoms and certain sex toy materials. Water-based lube is even better for those with sensitive skin. Please Gel is water-based and paraben/glycerin-free, according to Finn, and "compatible with all kinds of toys, condoms, and barriers."